Passing judgements on people is terrible but we all do it, don't we? I don't think it's a big deal until you act on these judgements and shun certain people because of a first impression without giving them the opportunity to show their true colors. I try my hardest not to be ruled by my judgements. I think I do a pretty good job. For example.. I really don't like girls. I know...wtf... I AM a girl. I have to meet a girl about 5 times until I let down my guard a little bit. Do I have friends that are girls, you ask. I do. I have lots of girl friends. I got the coolest girls New York City has ever seen and i wouldn't give them up for anything and if they were gonna abandon me they probably would have done it when I quit shaving and wearing deodorant but didn't lose my love of tank tops or short skirts. My theory is that at this point in our lives....THE 20'S!!!!! girls have had enough chances to hang out with guys long enough to be cool, be it brothers or friends or whatever. I also judge people based on the amounts of pot they smoke. There's nothing I hate more, not even girls I haven't met 5 times, than a bunch of kids that do nothing productive and are going no where with a lame sense of humor but think they're the shit. GET REAL! Sad to say I had to stop hanging out with a lot of my friends for this reason. It was cool 3 years ago but you're still doing the same shit? I'm no saint but I've got some brag worthy things under my belt.
Basically this is all leading up to one final question.. It's something I've always wondered. I'm kind of fascinated by perception and points of views of others. How do you perceive me? Having read some blogging of mine and that's all i guess. haha. Yesterday as I was walking past FIT three guys sitting on a bench looked at me and said "would you ever date a girl like that?" I don't know if they meant it in a negative way. So what I have short hair, acid wash jeans and doc martens on. I'm much more than that. I like dresses too ;)
i'm gonna close my eyes and make a wish and that wish is that everyone that even glances at this blog will share their thoughts
1 comment:
fuck all the unmotivated lame people who you've had to part ways with. there is a good reason for that, because you've grown up while other people haven't. In my opinion, you are smart and beautiful whether in acid wash jeans or a potato sack. Those FIT boys just wish that a girl like you would give them the time of day
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